If someone had told me years ago that one single Facebook message would completely change my life, I'd have likely laughed . Social media is all noise—likes, shares, tags—but it provided me with something life-changingly true: love. I met my future spouse on Facebook. At the time, he was a total stranger. I honestly can't even recall who initiated the first friend request, but I do remember the conversation that followed. It started small: a hello, a comment on a post, shared interest. Over time, we started talking more. One thing that surprised me was how easy it felt, even through a screen. He was mannered, thoughtful, witty, and genuinely wanted to get to know me. Over time, our chats grew long. We had become good friends, never having even met. Then, eventually, that friendship blossomed into something more. What began as a surprise Internet connection transformed into a relationship of trust, laughter, and love. Fast-forward to today—...
One of the things I’ve struggled with since moving to the U.S. is deciding what language to use on social media. Back home in Nepal, I post in Nepali; it feels natural, personal, and real. But here, I’ve noticed that when I post in English, more people engage. It’s as if English isn’t just a language, it’s a requirement for visibility. This week’s reading reminded me that even though social media is expanding in developing countries, the platforms themselves often prioritize English. That leaves people like me with a choice: post authentically in my own language or switch to English to be seen. I sometimes feel like I’m translating myself just to belong in digital spaces. It’s empowering to have a voice, but frustrating when it feels like I must speak in someone else’s tongue to be heard.
When I first came to the U.S. for graduate school, everything felt unfamiliar—new systems, new expectations, new ways of learning. I quickly realized that education here wasn’t just about memorizing content or listening quietly in a lecture hall. It was about engaging, questioning, and contributing. And for me, that was both exciting and terrifying. Web 2.0 became my unexpected companion in this journey. Tools like Padlet, Slack, blogs, and discussion forums helped me slowly find my footing. In the beginning, I was nervous about sharing my ideas publicly. I worried about my grammar, about “sounding smart,” or even about whether my cultural background would be understood. But as the course moved forward, I began to feel something shift. These platforms weren’t just digital tools; they were spaces where my voice mattered. Padlet became a place where I could share my thoughts freely without fear of judgment. Slack let me ask questions and connect with classmates without needing to speak...
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