From Friend Request to Forever

 If someone had told me years ago that one single Facebook message would completely change my life, I'd have likely laughed. Social media is all noise—likes, shares, tags—but it provided me with something life-changingly true: love.  

I met my future spouse on Facebook. At the time, he was a total stranger. I honestly can't even recall who initiated the first friend request, but I do remember the conversation that followed. It started small: a hello, a comment on a post, shared interest. Over time, we started talking more. One thing that surprised me was how easy it felt, even through a screen. He was mannered, thoughtful, witty, and genuinely wanted to get to know me. 

Over time, our chats grew long. We had become good friends, never having even met. Then, eventually, that friendship blossomed into something more. What began as a surprise Internet connection transformed into a relationship of trust, laughter, and love.  

Fast-forward to today—we're married.  

Sometimes I think about it and still can't get over how a serendipitous online interaction led me to my soul mate. Social media is so easy to envision as vapid or distracting, but my story is a reminder that deep connections can be formed in online spaces, too.  

Facebook did not just give me a friend—it gave me a future. 

With Love 💗

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  1. LydiaMay 30, 2025 at 1:42 PM

    Hi Aastha!

    Wow! What a beautiful story. It's crazy to think that if you never created a Facebook, you're life would look so different than it does! I think the ability to connect and meet new people we might not have gotten a chance to otherwise, is such a beautiful thing that social media has given us. Even me commenting this on your blog post and getting to hear your beautiful love story would not be possible without social media and the internet, and for that, I'm thankful.

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    1. Aastha BJune 2, 2025 at 10:53 PM

      It is so true that had I not created the FB profile, my life might not had been the same.

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  2. GatsbyMay 30, 2025 at 5:40 PM

    Wow, Asstha, this gave me goosebumps!
    It’s incredible how something as ordinary as a Facebook message can turn into something so extraordinary. Your story is such a powerful reminder that love can find us in the most unexpected ways—and that even in this digital age, sincerity still shines through the screen.
    I’m so happy for you both. Honestly, your journey feels like something out of a novel—but even better because it’s real. Thank you for sharing this—it brought a big smile to my face and a little hope to my heart kkkkkkkk.

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    1. Aastha BJune 2, 2025 at 10:53 PM

      Thank you so much for your love and support.

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  3. AyaMay 30, 2025 at 9:13 PM

    That is such a great story! These days, people fixate on the problems with social media, but it has its bright spots. It connects people and you never know who you may meet. It's wonderful you found someone special.

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  4. VanessaMay 31, 2025 at 6:06 PM

    Love! And I love this! I met my husband online, too, and there's something to be said for meeting this way.

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    1. Aastha BJune 2, 2025 at 10:54 PM

      That is interesting to know that you met your husband online too. Sometimes social media platforms give us the most unexpected things.

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  5. nickinickelzJune 1, 2025 at 7:06 PM

    What a beautiful story! It's such a powerful reminder that behind every profile is a real person, and sometimes those connections go far beyond the surface. Meaningful relationships can grow from online spaces, especially when people approach them with sincerity and openness. I have had some relationships begin online, and your story gives me hope for the long-term future! <3

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    1. Aastha BJune 2, 2025 at 10:55 PM

      Indeed, Behind every profile is a real person.

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  6. KD the StudentJune 4, 2025 at 7:15 AM

    Aastha, this is a beautiful story. Web 2.0 has created so many beautiful love stories. Thank you for sharing with us how it has helped you. Im glad that the simple friend request turned into a loving marriage. Social media is so powerful and have many amazing advantages.

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